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Well, can't say I know all that's been said but from what I've seen I hope you're not taking this personally or as an actual indictment on your game. I don't think there was anything inherently wrong with the content but futa and "heroines sleep with others", while not actually opposed to harem are "harder" tags in an otherwise player character-centric and vaguely vanilla game so I can understand some negative reaction. That said, it's your game and you can do whatever you want, it is up to the audience to decide what is worth their time. Personally I don't think you should remove the content wholesale but make the more controversial tags avoidable in that genuinely doesn't happen if the player doesn't want it to, not that it happens but you don't see it (though this comes with it own bag of worms i.e. options can still inform character and for example some will be put off if a heroine shows a willingness for scenarios like sharing). But I'm pretty pro-player agency over even the most vanilla of sexual content unless it's very important to something.