As for me it's simple - i just don't care.
In your scenario i will treat "me" as actual person, and closest person.
Either for any kind of robot - if it will have consioness and apparently selfconsioness all is good.
P.S. Hell, after reading/watching some anime, VN, game etc which i really like most saddest thing for me that it's universe, characters simply... don't exist 😥
I always know, that's a work of fiction, but still...
P.P.S I know determination of consioness is compilcated.So if to be honest i will treat as actual person in any case if i can't say with at least 100% that it's haven't consioness and selfconsioness and just imitating it.
Sorry for my English , he isn't my native language and i'm bad in writing with it.