I mean like technically it is correct but if someone wants kids I'm not gonna like shame them for wanting kids cause it's the same as being shamed for not wanting kids and I don't really wanna be that person.
exactly so like I just don't wanna be like that, I don't really wanna say not having kids is better or having kids is better cause like there's no "better" it's just do you want kids or not and that's it.
I'm overexplaining, I'm sure you ready got the point 20 years ago but you get it yeah
