wowies just found this
time to start venting bc if i dont ill probs go insane and i trust yall
ANYWAYS.
so today b4 i left for skl, (this was abt 15 hrs ago) i changed like i always do, and looked around for my phone, bc i didnt know the time. quite normal so far
I couldn't find it, so i thought maybe my brother hid it to piss me off. I ask him and he swears multiple times he doesn't have it, and even if he did, he doesn't know the password. I ask him where he thinks it is, and he says it was on the one-person couch with my dad.
I get worried bc my dad obviously doesn't know what the meaning of privacy of kids is, so i go to him and sit down, and i see him holding my phone. I wait for him to put down my phone but he doesn't. He looks up at me, opens up my instagram, then my messages, then a dm of a guy in my class. Mind you, me and that guy have never had a conversation face-to-face. EVER. Issue is, he swears a lot on text, but im used to it since its the same thing with my whole class. anyways
"What's between you and him to the point he swears at you?"
"There's nothing between us, wdym?"
"WHY DOES HE SWEAR AT YOU ?!"
"Dad, its normal, so does the whole class."
"This is a boy."
"And?"
"Why are you talking to a boy?"
"I've never had a conversation with him, and I told you, he's like this."
cue the lovely slap on my face and confusion on my face.
"WHY ARE YOU TALKING TO A BOY ??"
i just stare at him bc when my dad's angry, theres nothing i can really do
"ANSWER ME ."
Cue the other slap which makes me fall down and cry lol
"I'm taking your phone away."
"WAIT WHAT ?! WHY ? YOU COULD JUST BLOCK HIM I DON'T CARE ?"
"YOU'RE NOT TRUSTWORTHY."
I run to my mom and cry, my face full of tears, my glasses dirty
I tell her what happened, and when my dad comes in I just glare at him.
"The whole class swears, not only that boy, and there's nothing between your daughter and him."
"I'm still taking your phone away."
"SO YOU CAN CUT ME OFF CONTACT FROM EVERYONE I KNOW ?! HAVEN'T YOU DONE THIS FOR ALMOST A YEAR ALREADY ?! I CAN'T EVEN KEEP MY STUFF PRIVATE ANYMORE."
continuing this later bc i think he woke up lol haha