Believe me I know the feeling. But at the end of the day nothing we could of done would of worked. The Druid sent those wolves to hunt her down (at least that's how I see it), we're protecting Elain from heartbreak as she may see it as, SHE caused her mothers death by asking for assistance and that is something she will always think in the back of her mind. I may come to light later on. But for now we can keep her hopes up and help her survive. As her mother asked us to do.