I get it now. Thanks. And I totally agree! (Guess I was one of those who took it for granted XD)
Maybe I needn't stress over those terms that much. People have different preferences, especially for Sex Appeal, it's personal and specific. So we should embrace while respect the Variety - might took more effort to create / find the contents we are looking for, but we should be grateful that we can have these choices in the first place.
Also saw you mentioned Minotaur Hotel, I'm glad you ain't excluding Furry as part of it :P (Actually you already mentioned Nanoff's & Rausmutt's work in your main post XD)
Personally I consume these kind of contents for the NSFW part, so it's great when they go beyond sex (like your work :P)