I already have a bunch of harem accepting points for characters. If I stop here am I still safe from triggering the harem ending with all the nasty shit in it? At this point I might as well just get the ending for each individual character and call it a day.
Yeah the main character can do no wrong. They set it up that no matter how cruel you are to them the girls always become brainwashed that what he did was out of love. That they were in need to being brought outta their shell and only his selfish pervert acts could do the trick. Uno is reduced to a porn star. Senning is reduced to a ordor obsessed fan girl. And the list goes on. Imply that no one's life is complete without The MC dick and selfish sex demands.
I want sex scenes but I don't want them in the rapist fashion the come as sometimes. And the girls are written to want that roleplay. A kind gentleman who turns into an abusive jerk in bed. I don't know anyone IRL who likes that. Or at least they never said so. And I've heard some wild conversations over the years.
I just want to romance all the women and they all move in together and maybe start a giant BnB business together. Or something fun and happy like that. Why would a sex dungeon maniac MC ending be cool in the writer's eyes.