Very good, I totally agree, freedom of choice is very important, especially in erotic games.
I also like to take my time before moving on the route of any heroine. If I would just be looking for quick "stress relief", then I would have instead been watching free porn videos. I'm here for the romance and adventure!
Sorry, I'm still just goofing around downloading plenty of games from itch, so I still didn't play, but, you mistyped two of very important tags:
You typed nswf instead of NSFW.
You also typed fanta instead of Fantasy.
:D