So I'm no expert and I do recognise that it might be an issue with a lot of gay folk, but I think the reason why those passages are not influenced by your sexuality is mostly because of the constraints of the engine that's being used, but there are choices that are affected by your sexuality such as with Vicoria and Madeleine, the combat though is something that's different and since you yourself are able to tease straight enemies seeing as some of them complain that your character is male then having the same happen to you isn't that strange, also the population of the world the game is taking place seem to be suffering of an unspecified increase in libido which is kind fogging up people's brains(I'm not speaking of the curse of lust specifically since on the opening to the game the character you play as says as much themselve), so in all I don't think that it is the intention of the game to say that everyone is bisexual or your gay character is bisexual is just a limitation of the engine and there's also the fact that most female enemies or even NPC's that you can interact seem to be an early addition to the game which makes adding/editing to those passages of theirs kinda tricky(I'd assume)
Ah didn't think about it that way. Still waaaay to awkward for me to play. Even with that in mind that still means it's not really a game meant for someone like me. Plain and simple, plain vanilla. Whatever the reason for it, it just makes sense to make it a bi game and remove the sexualities all together. Functionally they do nothing. If you are unable to implement the way sexuality actually works don't include it at all. I also want to add it IS weird that a women can turn on a gay man in combat and yes it's weird with straight men being attracted to gay men too. It shouldn't be a thing. Realistically though what in society is more acceptable to label yourself as gay or straight? You know the answer. You can always excuse a "straight" man being attracted to your character with just being insecure in himself (and actually being bi or gay) or some shit. You cannot say the same for the main character you create with the sole purpose of embodying your own identity and honest attraction (It is you and you know what you get it up to) . And if some magic brain fog causes you to magically be bi then once again that implies it's some sorta choice (because no forms of conversion therapy irl changes someones attraction) There is no purpose to it being there. I understand the limitations but at a certain point it's dumb to have sexual identities for sexual identities sake if you aren't able to make them work. Why not make sexuality choose the enemy encounters? Or if you can't make them work just remove them? A few throw away lines about your character being "gay" right after losing and getting fucked by a girl doesn't really do anything to remedy that. It's like a band aid on a gash, and honestly it comes off as the good ole "Every gay guy would enjoy pussy if he had the right one" line. I'd honestly just have the character be bi so it didn't create that disconnect.
The reason why the game make you exited by woman, even if you're gay, is to balance the sexualities, otherwise a straight man could arouse everyone and being immune to nearly all the enemies, while a bi man could be aroused by everyone and not be able to arouse everyone.
By the way you talk about this problem, it makes me think that you've not played the game enough. The function of sexualities is to change the rate of female/male enemies that you can encounter, so if your character is gay you'll never meet the female bandit or the female harpy, and the only unavoidable female enemies that could arouse you will be the nymph and the lizardman acolyte. Only two among more than 40 types of enemies. Plus, if you don't want to be aroused by the nymph, you can use the hate potions so their attitude will fall and they will attack instead of flirt.
You say that gay shouldn't even be an option, if your character is going to be bi anyways, but, actually, the main character turns gay if you don't lock your orientation, since there are more men to seduce in combat than women and by game mechanic this change your sexuality from bi to gay. In all the game there are more or less a dozen sex scenes with women, while there are more or less two hundred with man, plus in all the game you can see only two images of naked women, while naked men are abundant. You're focusing on two/three scenes in the early game that involve women, but if you'd continued the game, even playing as a bi character, you'd see that horny women are practically non existant.
In my opinion, it's paradoxical that you say that the game is not meant for you, a gay man, and that is meant for bi folks, when in reality bi folks are complaining that there are not enough sex scenes involving women and say that this is a gay game with just a sprinkle of straight sex, just so it could seem to be bi.
My advice for you is to continue playing the game, you'll realise that this is not a game where your sexuality is basically implied just not to exist. Or don't. Playing this game, unlike your sexuality, is a choice. XD
I have met female bandits for starters with the gay option. Also you aware bi leaning towards men exsist right? By people like me I mean people who were molested and or sexually assaulted by a women. Secondly, if there being more women in game made it where I could actually be gay I would have no problem with it. I have no issues with them. I just don't want to f them. And even 1 encounter is too much btw (even though you encounter women just without the drawing) :). If balance is making a gay character bi then once again it's just lazy. Using a potion implies it's a choice sweatheart.
Maybe people should not read so deep into a porno RPG game. But if it bothers you so much there are plenty of porno games out there. I doubt it is going to change. Something made to make the variety of smut in a porno game more accessible offending you is just sad even by todays everyone is always offended standards. Chill sweetheart.
Being a bi man leaning towards men, I'm aware that those kind of people exist, but I don't know why are you bringing that up.
If your concern is to avoid having sex with women, among the options I've listed, there is the option to escape the fight. If your concern is molestation and sexual assault, than yes, this game is not for you, since your character will be molested, will be raped and will rape.
I'm not questioning the fact that is lazy or that it could be implemented better, I'm questioning the fact that being straight or gay in the game has no function, and that is a problem so big that makes the game unplayable if you want to play as a gay man (while if you'd want to play as a staight man I'd agree).
The game doesn't use the same logic as reality: using a potion doesn't imply that your sexuality is a choice, but it's a game mechanic that allows you change your choice and experience the game in a different way. You are not your character, you pay as your character.