I was worried about the same thing, but now there's a guide in the game that you can reference to avoid rapey scenarios. I thought it worked pretty well! Before that there was a lot of re-loading for me!
But there's so much that can't be avoided. And I've tried to use that guide and it wouldn't work. Like when you're searching for the missing friend, that always ended in strongly implied rape. It just sucks because I love everything else in the game except for all the forced rape content
