For the store: You'll need to meet Sarah two times. Follow Pamela's path to do this. You'll need to progress Elsa's questline a bit up till the cafeteria. the store opens after day 40.
The boss arrives day 68+, after you sleep. As long as all journal character tasks are something like "wait until the boss arrives".
You're missing some events in your journal: Are you stuck somewhere? Visit a bunch of other girls.