No.
Let's talk.
You aren't a true ally of the LGBTQIA+.
It isn't because you're a bad person.
It IS because you are extremely, extremely, ignorant.
And I have a problem with that ignorance.
I'm not mad, I just want you to do a bit better. Like if you don't know something, research it or something like that. And what you need to understand is that a lot of people, especially in regards to gender, have faced a lot of discrimination and hurtful/ignorant comments. People can get overly defensive because of that.