LOL just keep getting likes and talk to him about all the things he wants to talk about. Eventually he will ask you for a 1st and then a 2nd date.
IDK where you are with all that, but my best advice, go kind of slow. Some of the things he wants to talk about will give you likes only if you wait until you have 20 likes or even 30.
Take plenty of private baths with him and you will get to 20 likes quick, then you can start to ask him about things that you haven't already.
This guide is a little old but it has some good info on Hayden:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1kk1nVwdcqxsqkysRpLgMoRE0wKDOmMXYfxKpDsBl...
I PROMISE he will eventually ask you for a 1st and then a 2nd date, even if you are a Dom Top.