I swore I responded to this comment and idk why but it never posted I guess. I'm behind on replies so I apologize for taking forever. So i really appreciate the educational aspect from a master's level student; especially one specifically studying sexuality. I think the dynamics hold up. They won't describe everyone's experience but they describe things that have been true to me and things that I struggled with. I wanted to share that but also show a way out of it in the hopes that it would validate others. Don't analyze me too closely though, this is my first time :p