It pains me to say this to all who are still having trouble seeing the new update for the map. Do take in note that the update is only available for iOS 13 and above and android version 6 and above. Anything lower will not be shown, so iPhone 6 users you're out of luck. If people are having troubles with the account, they are a bit buggy, give it a few tries. If you are under the recommended age for internet use or you get a pop up saying to confront your guarding just go ask them to accept the request sent to the email at hand. Just a simple click read the access and press accept. And you're done.