hm. I'm not the best at choice-making, but if your parents are THAT bad, Snap on them.the best decision is to yell, in your case. if this has gone on for the past 14 years for you, let them know, with your own words. but what do I know? what I'm saying is TRY THAT. FUCK THE PARENTS! be your own person. Don't take my advice if you don't want to.
well I'm still being chicken on my couch soooooooo. Maybe I should wait for when they do it again so I can yell. As rn I'm being neglected (not literally.) so when they are abusive again I'll yell at them. But they'll probably say I'm ungreatful and then I'll believe it and be sent on a guilt trip that will keep me awake for 2 weeks... ok yeah I'm too chicken.