so how do we find a way around this? Many cards (especially strong ones) does have butt plug ability attacks :/
this could be easier or harder depend on your deck. I have 3 trainers and 1 vamp lady in my deck and it's not a problem.
It's okay to have butt plug on your left most card because when your first card attacks, there will always be an opponent card on table. After that I avoid playing trainer and vamp lady.
It's okay to play cards like police officer and proctologist in later slots, just need to combine them with another card to remove the butt ability before they can attack.
Good luck!