ooh do i have the list for you all! (i'm on a mac so unless otherwise stated these are all playable on mac)
Heartbaked: a super cute dating sim about baking & true love featuring a nameable protagonist that is gender-locked as female. GxB / F2P / COMPLETE
Pipe Dream: you play as 'Robin' it's set in university and she is rooming with her bestie. 6 romance options / LGBT / DEMO
Amplitude: body-snatched! protag died but is now brought back in the body of whoever (girl or boy!) you decide. Lots of romance options / P2P / COMPLETE
Pinewood Island: murder mystery & 'whodunit' visual novel with a customizable protagonist with romance options available. GxB / P2P / COMPLETE
Mannequin Academy: super gay and set in an academy with A/B/O dynamics! LGBT / 5 Romance options / BXB / P2P / WINDOWS
Enamored Risks: MC with a knack for mystery set in college. GxB & GxG / 3 romance options / F2P / COMPLETE
An Otaku's Guide to Santa's Reindeers: 9 romance options / DEMO (probably an indefinite hiatus at this point...)
Candied Carols: a wintry love story about toys! christmas toys, that is. MC is customizable & love is in the air! 4 romances / BETA
Aloners: play as a gal in an apocalyptic wasteland with what appears to be a lone surviver named 'Trash'. GxB / COMPLETE
Perfumare: !!! MUST- PLAY gods people it is amazing please just play it i can't even explain just do!! dark fantasy with 3 romance options / IN DEVELOPMENT
Truths Untold: regency era!!! you play as a lady and have 3 possible suitors; an aged oldie, a swashbuckling sailor or your slimy cheating paramour. i don't like him XD
Heart Fragment: currently playing this lol;; in progress but so far sad and cute check it out! MC has personality!!! and negative traits too?! 100+ choices will be in the complete version too GxB / DEMO
XOXO Droplets: AMAZINGG PLAY IT!! i have the extended version but the F2P one has 3 options the P2P (extended) gives you 3 more. nameable female protag with an adorable personality and is seriously thirsty after guys lol. GxB / 3 (or 6 if you pay) romance options / COMPLETE
Changeling: a fantasy in a high-school setting! MC is nameable & actually awesome! i highly recc this with 6 romance options!! you can date Vampires, a Werewolf, a Fairy?! and a goofball Wizard! mystery after mystery and uncovering the forgotten past of MC! GxB / 6 romance options / COMPLETE / P2P
Gilded Shadows: ^^ same dev as Changeling and that's why its so damn good guys. MC is an Esper and ofc we're a QUEEN. in power i mean. up to 4 chapters out now more on the way so get it!! GxB / 9 romance options / DEMO
Tailor Tales: customizable MC who creates clothes (mini-game feature) with different storylines the F2P is SFW with 3 guys so far. the patreon version has the explicit NSFW version and lots more content + James' route!!! GxB / MORE ROUTES TO COME
Manor Hill: a mystery with attractive people at a party hosted in a luxurious manor. LGBTQA / IN DEVELOPMENT
The Pretenders Guild: fully customizable MC with 3 romance-able cuties ;) your BFF, a freaking Prince, and a choco-loving ninja warrior. LGBT / COMPLETE
Fujiwara: MC can fall in love with guys who are all multifaceted and have more depth to them than first impressions let on. 6 romance options !! / GxB / F2P / COMPLETE
Belong: customizable MC ftw!! cute slice of life MC at a part-time job. GxG & GxB / COMPLETE
1st Degree: murder and more murder! MC is gender-locked as a man who is a serial killer. yup, we be livin Dexter. 4 routes (one is 2in1 with twins...) / DEMO / BXB
Miraclr: on PC its P2P but also on IOS for free! you date archangels basically. text you in real-time too! choose your pronouns!! 5 romance options & secret route too! COMPLETE
Mnemonic Devices: amnesiac MC who is customizable!~ you have 2 suitors to choose from and memories to (literally) unlock! LGBT / COMPLETE
& lastly, a2 ~a due~; a hidden gem about music + and differences in people. GxB / COMPLETE