Oh uh dude, you didnt missed anything, you just didnt do the right choices, trust me I know the feeling of repeat failure, anyways for patreon there is a full tutorial but since im not one all I can say is
•Save at every correct action
•Do an action
•See if said action has a unique reaction like a second phrase
•If said action doesnt have reaction or is the same as one of the other actions, then that is a wrong action
•Have patience, cause you wont get anywhere if you whine all the time.