Try other teammates temporarily until you discover the oasis. At that time, the shower room could be built to reduce excitement. Having conversations with teammates at night, promoting relationships, and engaging in sexual activity can also reduce excitement. The worst method is to use the Bottle of Slime Fluid, which you can obtain through exploration on the 7th floor, but it will increase your teammates' corruption points by 5 points. Even so, it's better than ejaculating in battle because it will increase the corruption value by 30 points.
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