This really, really hit me. As with so many VNs, I approached your concept thinking I'd find something new and unfamiliar, but instead was met with a story that demanded to be engaged with and recognized as aggressively personal.
It's crazy how many stories you can read about sex without any of them ever resonating, until finally one does. You managed to write so empathetically about this without removing even a single one of its teeth. Incredible work.