The idea of unlocking a safe haven for the girls is nice, makes them more realistic. I think you misinterpreted what I meant with "pass." I'm not saying, "Everyone must enjoy the extreme fetishs, no soft vanilla enjoyment around here." Just, "Toggles would are neat and all, but I like how the game currently is." Also pointing out that physical details requires a new copy with the edits of the same character per toggle, or some layer titled filth.
If the dev wants to add a switch that can be changed from the beginning or from your pause menu, the earlier the better. I probably will leave everything on, that's what I meant with pass.