i've been chewing on this comment a bunch and thinking about it. because it definitely is a really interesting approach from what we started from (i.e. galia being the main perpetrator for why nita Is the way she is, and how galia worsened her fears and anxieties). and even so, love is about knowing how to accept someone despite their flaws. and that gets suffocating in of itself when you do not realise you want to communicate that struggle but don't have it in you to do so. it's really terrifying to think about and i'm glad you mentioned this even if it wasn't our explicit focus ^^