I commend you for taking the time to reflect on your post and my response.
As I said, it's fine for something to not be for you, but you have to engage with reviews in good faith along with the community that the media is within.
I do encourage you to continue to try new VNs and branch out of your norm, but always keep in mind, a lot of games here on itch.io in particular, are labors of love, and like A03 are shared with others for no reason other than the love of creating. That means you need to understand what is and is not going to be a respectable and decent review and critique.
Part of the VN community, especially the indie game community, is based on uplifting others and sharing what we enjoy. You don't need to leave all glowing reviews, but you do need to approach them with the understanding of who and why they are made, and the audience.
That all being said, I wish you well and that you find games that better suit your tastes and that offer the experiences you're looking for. This may not be it, but, likely you will find something that is.