Hi Zen! I really appreciate the feedback and the question.
Currently, the customization aspect of Dane isn't its strongest feature. While I would love to implement the kind of biology and sexuality changes you mentioned, I unfortunately didn't set up the game for it from the beginning, and it would take far too much time to adapt the code for it now.
However, I am definitely going to consider this level of customization for my next game (which my Patrons are voting on right now 😊)