since this is a rant Imma rant a smidge too because yall understand and I have no trans friends (edit hey nevermind Im happy to state I have at least 1 and their really cool but Im scared to even talk to them about this stuff ha their a new friend so I dont know their vibe on stuff quite yet), Im sick of supportive people in my life using they for any women in the room just because I, a transmasc nonbinary afab person, exist in the space as well and its too hard to gender me correctly so you just they/them everyone that looks specifically femme, I use they/them pronouns, absolutely disgusted by that when you claim your an ally and supporter to me its not only disrespectful to me but also to everyone else in that room.