I never got wizard builds to work.
So I'm going to tell you to go become a fighter. You're NEVER going to put on a single piece of armor. Maybe a cloak if you feel sassy.
Now you need to customize your perks. You want the perk that gives you bonus melee electrical damage if your mana is full. Your goal here is to maximize your damage output. Take every flaw that inhibits your casting--we will be doing zero casting, and those are FREE PERK POINTS. We UNGA, then we BUNGA. (I like Psychic, and Better Struggle/Escape/Lockpick)
You're going to take , however, the skills that give you bondage resistance based on willpower, riposte,--you're going to take every defense skill, and you're going to break orbs (Switch goddesses to avoid angering any. Do NOT anger Restoration at all costs.) to make sure you have the double-attack skill. as well. The MOST important skill is the one that stuns enemies if you block them. Remember how high your block is? That's right. You're turning enemy abilities into self-stun.
You want a weapon that gives magic or shadow damage, unless it's just A Really Good Weapon. Never touch armor. Keep every bit of food. Your willpower must remain high at all times. Anything you can do to increase attack power at that point, and as long as you don't actively stand in the bad, the unavoidable stuff won't really...do? Anything? If a gag gives you phys attack damage, do it. If a chastity belt gives you physical attack, do it. Anything that does not IMPEDE your movement or ability to swing a weapon? Take it.
Do NOT take the restoration quest early on. You are melee, and you are angering the 'we have bondage arrows' crowd. You don't need the rewards that badly. In fact, if you're fullclearing floors, you're going to have embarassing amounts of gold. Spend it, again, on every source of willpower. Eat those good girl cookies.