I tend to disagree. Most discords for games have a "anouncement role" and a specific channel for updates. I only get notified when there is an update for the game I am interested in. So i know I joined and that when there is something new or important i get notified and don't have to look for any info in thousands of messages. I can just go on with my life and when there is something new I get a nottification on my phone I can check it and that's it.