Thank you! This means a lot. I think I have a lot to say about being "heartless" and aro, but if that's a word that makes sense to you as an identifier, that's fine too!
I think you're allowed to be as mean and independent as you are; there will be people who are compatible with that who will find you and who will be interested in the kind of bonds you're looking for.
I've been doing well! I'm still living with the same goblin I made this game about, and I think we will continue in that fashion for the foreseeable future, which I am very happy about. I wish you lots of happiness, no matter what it looks like!