as an aside, I find this kind of struggle interesting to explore in the context of vn/fiction, because that allows you to present all sorts of different perspectives with nuance and care
I've read vns that have characters with that mindset of "bisexual people can't be trusted" and I wonder if those characters are a useful way to confront the player, to ask the player "hey is this you? because this is not okay"
or bi characters who -do- choose to live a "straight life", and exploring how they struggle with that, how it makes them feel disconnected from other queer people in their life, how they try/fail/succeed to embrace and express their full self