I Don't know if this is the right place to put this, but when I purchased the bell and triggered Hathor's capture quest. I instead focused on getting the Castle to level 3, Later Capturing Selene and Morrigan, of which then Nyx decided to finally show up, and I captured her in the same Village Hathor's quest was supposed to be. I continued the game thinking she would pop up eventually but I've got Lilith and Bastet in my Nest now and Hathor is nowhere to be found, is this a bug or do I just have terrible luck?
i think its a mix of bad luck and progression, as you progress further the odds of her showing up are slimmer she also only shows up in village 2 (at least across my 7 playthroughs XD) but you also have to be lucky in some i didn't get her showing up often others she did quickly, a bit like bastet in the store, took me forever to get her.