That is a VERY raw comment but one that I think rings true for a lot of people raised as guys. The idea that other people and romance is just a puzzle box that if you can solve it, you'll get the reward. I think a lot of people have stories about coming to terms with the unreality of that fantasy.
I'm glad it could hit somewhere personal like that. I 100% know where you're coming from so it means a lot to see a comment like this.
Also thank you, the design book was a lot of fun!