Hey, I appreciate the lengthy feedback!
I want to preface by saying, this build is a year and a half old, and I don't remember exactly what is in it, but!
Everything is avoidable. We even have an NSFW warning option, so you know if a choice will lead to porn or not.
I agree that you can't back out of certain sexual encounters once you have agreed to one. It's not well done. There are a few scenes that assume that since you're into (insert character), you're down for more.
I, however, do disagree with a "daddy" tag. Calling your sexual partner "Daddy" or "Baby" during sex is extremely commonplace. It would be like expecting a shooter game to tag "Pistols"; you should expect them to be there. It's not a "Father" or "Daddy" kink, but just... something people shout during sex.
Yeah, Mrs. Jones coming on to you in the call and exposing herself is a bit sketchy. Not knowing it was going to happen is sort of the point of the scene, since later you meet that character and (hopefully) understand her desperation to do anything to get out of her situation. I do my best to let people avoid it, but the scene is sudden and shocking on purpose. It serves the narrative.
All that being said, since the game is currently restarting, many of these issues won't be problems anymore, as they are shortcomings I have noticed, and that partially led me to restart my game.
As for tagging, I honestly don't know what people want tagged and what they don't. I would never think to tag "Daddy." Maybe the community can just call it out when it happens, and I'll add it. But then there is also the problem of something happening once, getting tagged, and people thinking the whole game will be like that. For instance, you, as the player in this build, can cheat on a date. So, tag cheating. Then I get people asking if the whole game is you cheating, being cheated on, getting cucked, NTR'd, etc etc. All for one scene.
So, it's tough and weird because people will jump to wild conclusions.