The girls won't show up if they aren't happy, so do an Ero action twice a day leading up to your milking day. Once you milk the girl on that day, do another Ero scene that night if you have another one the next day. Hope this helps.
The girls show up when they are scheduled to, but then that day gets reset to "Free Day" on their schedule, so I have to go add it back into their schedule.
Yeah, I'm experiencing this too. Everything is already super grindy with all the extra clicking. This really doesn't help particularly is setting up up has many more clicks than needed.
