its the same reason anime is like a never ending stream of pathetic weak nut spineless permavirgin losers that make no sense and IRL would never even have the slimest chance at ever even holding hands with a girl let alone anything else. Sadly for all of us guys that couldnt self insert even if we wanted too thats what the scrawny weak nut characters are meant to be self insert for the weak bottom feeders for the most part who are the main target audience. The rest of us are simply by product type fans that hold no sway. Otherwise anime/gaming/mamnga wouldnt just ooze "look im a weak nut loser destined to be forever alone if not for the seriously hardcore forced story affection".