I understand your frustration. My vision for those scenes was more 'friends with benefits' casual encounters rather than romance, but I can see how the lack of choice is frustrating in a game called 'University of Choices.'
For the next update, I'll modify these scenes so the player isn't surprised anymore and knows what's coming. And for future chapters, you'll always have the choice to accept or decline.
Thanks for the feedback, it helps me improve the game!