I agree, there's so many spaces with female protagonists but so little queer/mlm representation in games, the fvn space is literally all we have. Personally I would rather not ruin the fvn space with female protagonists. I can hardly read books with female protagonists 😭
tbf there's hardly any mlm and wlw books\games in general ESPECIALLY wlw (it's less popularized than mlm, and even then it's hard to find something good and not sexualized)
Also compared to female protagonists there's alot of male protagonist media statistically! i think you're just noticing female protagonist media more
nonetheless i still wish sometimes that i could play a male in otome games but alas.