it sucks whenever i find a cool ass yansim n its a fem only mc TnT
Because in this story, in a historical setting, her being fem matters, and is central to the story.
sheesh, then find something else. there are a lot of visual novels with yandere love interests where you can choose your own gender so chill.
Yeah, that sounds like it sucks because free ones that'd suit your tastes exists where you can get a customisation tailored to your gender exists on an even smaller scale than ones where you get to play as a fem.
Hope you find what you're looking for.