You have my sympathies, coming from a person whose biggest kink (unrelated to The Kink) is also explicitly banned by patreon and ko-fi v_v (although I haven't tried selling any art). I will support your project.
I haven't engaged with The Kink very much, but your description of Lillith's powers sounds interesting. The one time I tried reading an erotic webcomic with The Kink, I stopped reading after a few episodes because I was put off by the MC's lack of guilt for her actions (the character's reactions seemed unrealistic). But your take sounds like something I could vibe with. There's a chance I could enjoy it, considering most of my biggest kinks involve an element of loss of control over one's body or actions, although in a completely different way than The Kink.
Thank you for sharing your experiences of making money through art so openly. It was very interesting to read for somebody who has never sold art but is toying with the idea.