Good question, the difficult bit is that a lot of the NTR genre is subjective and I've tried my best to make the different flavors in my works feel distinct to help with that. The netorare path in Sharing is Caring did have some mild (in my opinion) emotional damage to the MC as the FMC would gaslight and harass him into submission, though there is a point where the MC can walk away from the relationship. In Secrets and Boundaries, so far we haven't delved too deeply into the netorare side of things so there isn't anything too hard just yet. I would describe what you're looking for as "hard netorare", which my games don't really get to that point, at least in my opinion, and it's not something that I really aim for. I aim for more "soft netorare" where there is some mild humiliation/degradation/etc. but nothing too extreme.
I hope this answers your question, I appreciate the thought put into it.