Oh, dearest Angelika, we just changed, we grew up, we learned new things. You have to remember, its not the comments that are different, we are. Thats one of the bitter beauties of life, like a tree beeing cut down and a little sprout emerging from the stump. Try to hold onto the thought that the old didnt change and try to flourish in what you can do your way, no matter if thats new or old.