Right. The dish one feels right, or for buying groceries (no acknowledgement as of now) a peck as a reward and the third time around it lands on the mouth or something. Tongue not before BJ. All groping not before BJ or some (clothed) groping event where the subsequent gropings make sense, something along the lines of "help me up...mhm...what are you..." as I outlined. Or massage as you said since she complains about back and therefore does yoga, and some progression there from safe zones to ass to tits.