i'm in my mid-thirties, and i've been on the internet since i was 12, back before the internet was colonized by brands. i accidentally ran across stuff i probably shouldn't have from time to time, and you know what, it didn't break me. puritanical attitudes about human bodies, sex, pornography, and "forbidden media" did waaaaaay more emotional damage to me in the long run. purity culture does horrible things to you. it steals joy and layers shame over completely natural and harmless desires.
i genuinely hope someday you'll be able to let go of the attitude that porn is some kind of uniquely toxic substance that needs to be quarantined entirely from the rest of society. it actually sucks being uptight about it. i know because i lived that way for a while! yes, there is a time and place-- but itch has always allowed NSFW content. it does in fact "belong here", and always has.