No worries on the tips! And don't feel like you can never use jumpscares; more the point is to make sure that they're deserved, or that the game has substance outside of them.
On discord you can find me under the name dragonskiesgames. I sent a friend request! I'll probably be really sporadic with dms and stuff, but if you ever need feedback for projects or starting steps for coding, I can help out some.