"if u bothered to see" homie im not the one having a huge issue there, why are u so passive-aggressive, have u been hurt so deeply?? I'm just saddened when there is lack of proper tagging. the "girlies" part came afterward, cause sadly i've dealt with a lot of hate from cishetgirls specifically when i was just asking questions like that or asking authors on tumblr to tag their content properly yet again. Yeah i agree that was uncalled-for, im sorry for that, but let's not forget that it was you who assumed I was pestering the author by asking a simple and VALID question which would help me to register whether I want to interact with the content. And you attacked me. A-hole move here on ur part, too smh
with all that said, i think we can tots learn from that exchange, sometimes questions are just questions and assuming can be dangerous and attacking some group is not cool and one should be more considerate, peace