I understand what you are saying but i believe that people should start of with respect but if they continue to disrespect people and refuse to learn then remove them from our space. basically, give people a chance to learn but if they don't do what you think will help the most people without going too far but i do think it is ok to not be the bigger person. take what i say with a grain of salt i am only 18 so i dont have the most experience but i hope me saying what i think will make others think as well because the more people learn about how others think the better they can help them learn without putting them down.
Sorry for the late reply.
Honestly? If they are willing to look down on someone just because they don't understand them, it says a lot about them as a person. For such people to understand, they need to be motivated and want to learn new things. No theory from an outsider can help... The only way to do that is to let them experience life. For some people, patience can help; but for people like this, they need to know that we won't stand by and accept their insults with a smile.
You have brought up many great points and am willing to admit that my way of thinking is flawed but i will continue to respawn respectfully at first because i hate conflict. i think this mini debate was fun so anything ells you want to talk about. also, i found a vn called "A Mirror's Curse" that is really good its about a kid that had a spell placed onto them that makes it so when they do anything "girly" they become more feminine and slowly they realize that they are trans, there are several different routes and different relationships that could develop based on what you do.
Thanks for recommending the game, I'll definitely give it a try. This little debate was fun for me too. I'm autistic and I have a rigid mindset, so seeing other people's perspectives and learning from them is interesting to me [although sometimes I don't understand why people do what they do and still stick to my own views at the end lol]. Sorry in advance if any of my words come across as mean, I didn't mean it that way.
Recently I have been interested in learning more about transgender people and how they experience life. So yeah, I'll play it as soon as I have free time
cool I'm also autistic and nothing you said came of as mean but i suck at figuring out if something is mean rude or not also i def recommend nadia nova - itch.io because the visual novels they make are amazing their game slime feet was one of the few games to make me cry