oh my god WELCOME TO ITCH!!!!!!! it's my birthday today & honestly these comments are the best gifts a guy could ask for. i have wanted to write about my mom forever and (despite there being like billions of bipoc in this world) something about knowing there are other ppl who are going thru the same thing is deeply comforting. she actually just flew in to see me & left yesterday. needless to say i've been thinking about this one a lot lately..... it's kind of super fucking cool that other people are too