Thanks for the response, that all sounds good. As long as tags are more than just booleans that should work.
I did play this a little bit and created atleast the first mod on loverslab, not sure if anyone has posted some elsewhere.
https://www.loverslab.com/files/file/42096-alternate-cuckold-start-coworker/
But some further feedback upon creating this, I couldn't find a way to get dependencies to work between events, I tried adding the reference and named the event correctly but it didn't seem to work. I also couldn't get the mod to load correctly when Jeff was added into an event (this was a sub event, not sure if that made a difference). The stat requirements at the event level also seemed buggy, if I added stat requirements, it would just say Zoe isn't ready for this yet, so not really sure what that meant, It was also triggering events when the stats were not satisfied yet.
I also could not find a way to trigger a creampie animation, not sure if that should work somehow, but I didn't see much for it
The things I'm needing for this mod specifically if you are interested:
Jeff working, dependencies working, the ability to set tags (so that I can override the starts to some arcs), the ability to turn off some default events.