(You might have figured this out already because I noticed the date this was created... But I'll try anyway) If you're talking about "Sweet Sauce" , then you might've missed it, actually. You see, you have to say YES to a specific choice for that scene to play.. This choice happens when you are at Terrance's house. Agree to any choice that occurs at that place, and you'll get it.
And to the Bond things, forget it. Every scene doesn't require bond points, they require the bond level. The Bond Level is more important than Bond Points, so if your Bond Level is already at the max (typically lv 2 or lv 3) then you can forget bonding with your favorite hunks. (Or do anyway)
Edit: I don't have good proof of the Bond mechanics; this is just an assumption :3