ok so now that im able to play her affection doesnt go up from touch at all so now i have a f rateing for affection is this a bug or whats going on
Its a bit weird, but you need to make sure heart icons pop up in order to increase her affection meter. So don't rush things, and when you're touching her, just keep touching her parts. So for example, touching her left boob for a long time even after the meter on top gets to 100%, will increase her overall affection. Once you see a heart Icon show up, move to another part, like her Thigh, pussy/cock, butt, right boob or head. Basically, make her Cum just by touching her, and her affection for you will increase, and when you're having sex, don't activate auto, just tap/click the screen to perform the action depending on what pose you're in.
The dev doesn't do a great Job at explaining the system, but I learned by playing. Oh, and be sure to upgrade. So even if you're getting Bad grades and her affection is low, just keep farming coins to unlock upgrades.